Why should dark complected- individuals be given full citizenship, women be given the vote and NOT gays be "given" marriage? 1830 Daniel Webster refutes a southern senator's reasoning about the right of secession: I have not allowed myself, sir, to look beyond the Union, to see what might be hidden in the dark recess behind. I have not coolly weighed the chances of preserving liberty when the bonds that unite us together shall be broken asunder. I have not accustomed myself to hang over the precipice of disunion, to see whether, with my short sight, I can fathom the depth of the abyss below; nor could I regard him as a safe counselor in the affairs in this government whose thoughts should be mainly bent on considering, not how the Union may be best preserved but how tolerable might be the condition of the people when it should be broken up and destroyed. While the Union lasts, we have high, exciting, gratifying prospects spread out before us, for us and our children. Beyond that I seek not to penetrate the veil. God grant that in my day, at least, that curtain may not rise! God grant that on my vision never may be opened what lies behind! When my eyes shall be turned to behold for the last time the sun in heaven, may I not see him shining on the broken and dishonored fragments of a once glorious Union; on states dissevered, discordant, belligerent; on a land rent with civil feuds, or drenched, it may be, in fraternal blood! Let their last feeble and lingering glance rather behold the gorgeous ensign of the republic, now known and honored throughout the earth, still full high advanced, its arms and trophies streaming in their original luster, not a stripe erased or polluted, nor a single star obscured, bearing for its motto, no such miserable interrogatory as "What is all this worth?" nor those other words of delusion and folly, "Liberty first and Union afterwards"; but everywhere, spread all over in characters of living light, blazing on all its ample folds, as they float over the sea and over the land, and in every wind under the whole heavens, that other sentiment, dear to every true American heart— Liberty and Union, now and forever, one and inseparable! 1920 Guy Emerson in The New Frontier: A Study of the American Liberal Spirit... (Henry Holt and Co., ) "...men and women are born to put more into their country than they take out of it." (The copy of the book in the Kennedy Library was a gift to the President received at the White House in April, 1961). 1960 John Kennedy accepting Democratic nomination "It sums up not what I intend to offer the American People, but what I intend to ask of them." 2008 Lots of people: "No More Mister Nice Gay!" It seems that people can vehemently disagree even when they agree, because they put different weights on the same agreed-upon facts. Another thing is definitions. Great debates and weighty matters vanish and materialize as definitions vary. Marriage is all about definition. A man and wife remaining together long enough to raise a child to adulthood, because of psychological as well as physical factors, is not a given. Waking up each day knowing what being married means to one's spouse, family, friends, co-workers, social group, municipal group, state, nation, continent, hemisphere and planet goes a long way toward stabilizing this situation both for the benefit of most children and therefore for the benefit of society (everyone, in other words) in addition to the satisfaction and peace of mind of the couple in question. This type of beneficial "object", existing in no physical manifestation other than some poorly understood "configuration" of the little gray cells, perhaps, of hundreds of millions of humans, is the crux of the matter: its traditional meaning-- a partnership stemming from the possibility that a new human will be created unique to this pairing, as well as a new and also unique group (a microcosm and component of the larger society). What all this represents in the formation and maintenance of a civilization, and the FOUNDATIONAL nature of the clear understanding by everyone that this unique organism must be acknowledged and respected in and of itself, and that a concept of "congress nor the courts shall hinder the formation and continuance of these small and precious subgroups" (How? By making nitpicking but onerous tweaks in the simple and well accepted traditional definition for any reason, including but not limited to promoting lovers' hospital visitation rights, alleviating inadvertent inequities in the tax system, showing respect to and building the self esteem of other pairings of humans, EVEN FOR THE PURPOSE OF MAKING REPARATIONS FOR SLIGHTS AND OPPRESSIONS VISITED BY THE SOCIETY ON THESE OTHER PAIRINGS IN THE PAST) should be a no-brainer to those not so in love with legal briefs and technical speak as to be functionally addled. Tweak, if you must, definitions, rules, precedent interpretations in tort law, contract law, etc., but don't mess with this fundamental human agreement! Don't tread on me is a rallying cry and challenge from a past unifying effort, and it could well be taken up by the supporters of traditionally understood marriage against those whose do- gooder impulses impairs their common sense. |
man’s chief environment is man imagine zooming in from off planet: you see all these buildings and great walls etc. now imagine that a psionic blast just destroyed all human minds on the planet. imagine what structures will be viewable 1000 years from now, 10000 years... if you just zapped the structures, though, and left the human minds, how fast would they reappear. It’s the MINDS, Dearie! |